Mom-A-Grams: Just my Thoughts as a Mom

  • Getting Old: The Unraveling Truth of Aging


    As age unravels me, the secrets I only shared with God because He is omniscient (Isn’t that the word for “all-knowing?”) – like, for instance, That my youthful looks meant a lot more to me ...

  • Epic Fail

    Can I say what I finally realize at the age of 40? Well, I’m going to either way: You will fail…if you look for satisfaction in your feelings. If you look to happiness as a gauge of ...

  • All Else Fails, but Heaven Waits

    “Usually” means different things for me today than it did a little over half a decade ago. Thank God, I’ve moved out of the Bad Old Days and into a new life. I have friends and self-esteem ...

  • The Cure for Comparison & Nightmares

    Do you ever wonder: What would people think if they saw my family as it really is? Would they say, Jay Jones is a good mom. if they could do life with me, as if they, ...

  • How…& WHY to Relationship

    There are a things going on in my head right now, as usual. Thing 1 has to do with friendship, and Thing 2 revolves around the significance of children – how having them makes life valuable in different ...

  • Spoiled

    Definition of Spoiled here👇🏾

    verb (used with object), spoiled or spoilt, spoil·ing.
    to damage severely or harm (something), especially with reference to its excellence, value, usefulness, etc.:
    The water stain spoiled the painting. Drought spoiled the corn crop.
    to ...

  • You are a Choice

    I’m up again – late at night with the demons the devil sends to plague me: guilt and doubt. By day, it’s distraction and discouragement – via tv and children. Children, because it’s summertime…

    Spiritual attacks of the ...

  • Independence: Good for Parent & Child

    It’s hard for this mom to let them go, but teaching my kids how to do things feels good. Explaining to them why they should do things is very fulfilling. It makes me feel like a good ...

  • Am I a Good Friend?

    Are you wondering if your friends are good to you or, whether you’re good for them? Ask yourself: 1) Are you preach-y or judge-y? 2) Are you a Picker or a Lifter? And, 3) Are you ...

  • Defeat: You Choose

    Did you know we can choose inspiration over defeat? Well, I want you to know: You’re going somewhere when you hear the devil asking you Who do you think you are?

    You have to know that’s it’s the ...